Writing as Healing–A Series

Writing and Healing, and Dr. James Pennebaker’s Studies
Part One—Introduction

In this series, I’m celebrating the research that started being publicized in the late 1990s about how writing helps to heal the body and the mind, and celebrating my books on this subject. One of them is a decade old! And my recent book, The Power of Memoir just passed its first birthday. Join me in learning more about this powerful means of using words to create new worlds.

Writing your true story is healing! Though we know this intuitively, research over the last decade has proven it to be true. In this series of articles we will investigate the ways that writing helps to heal, and connect different ways of writing with layers and levels of healing. “Healing” can also be seen as “Getting a new perspective, finding a new point of view, letting go of the past, forgiveness and compassion.”

Dr. James Pennebaker, a psychologist at the University of Texas, is one of the most well known researchers on the topic, and in 2000 I asked him about the research he was doing during a visit in Austin, Texas. We sat across from each other in the student cafeteria. He brushed back his red hair from his face, talking and smiling about his work.

What he called “expressive writing,” writing that integrates your emotions and insights with memories of events that occurred in your past, improves the immune system and has a positive effect on diseases such as chronic fatigue syndrome, arthritis, and asthma, among others, and he forwarded me to the site of some of his articles.

We know that self-disclosure and confession have long played a role in relieving stress. People sometimes resist confession, but for many the ancient church sacrament helps to unburden shame and guilt, allowing them to face forward with new resolve, relieved and invigorated.

In the confessional, we speak the unspeakable. Confessional words can pierce the darkness, opening our hearts to hope and forgiveness. Through confession and unburdening, forgiveness can begin, for ourselves and others.

Psychotherapy has been called the modern day confessional. Like a priest in the darkened confessional, Freud positioned himself in the shadows of a dimly lit room—a sacred, private space in which clients could reveal hidden truths. His treatment rule was that they were to speak freely about whatever arose in their minds. This was a revolutionary, even dangerous, idea in Victorian times, when repression and suppression of thoughts and desires were the order of the day. In therapy, as in the church confessional, deep feelings, worries, and the secrets of the soul could finally be formed into words.

During the 1990s, Dr. Pennebaker began to wonder if writing would offer the same relief as spoken disclosure. For a decade, he and his colleagues had been investigating the therapeutic benefit of writing in various settings and with a large range of populations, including prisoners and crime victims, arthritis and chronic-pain sufferers, new mothers, and people with various physical illnesses, across different social classes and demographics.
During one such experiment, members of the control group were instructed to write lists or plans for the day, while the expressive writing group received the following directions:

For the next four days, I would like you to write about your very deepest thoughts and feelings about the most traumatic experience of your entire life. In your writing, I’d like you to really let go and explore your very deepest emotions and thoughts. You might tie your topic to your relationships with others, including parents, lovers, friends, or relatives; to your past, your present, or your future; or to who you have been, who you would like to be, or who you are now. You may write about the same general issues or experiences on all days of writing or on different traumas each day. All of your writing will be completely confidential.

Both groups wrote for fifteen minutes on each of the four days of the study.

Despite Dr. Pennebaker’s background as a psychologist, the intensity and depth of the trauma expressed in the subjects’ stories surprised and moved him profoundly. Students wrote about tragic and traumatic events, such as depression, rape, suicide attempts, child sexual and physical abuse, drug use, and family violence. They often wrote of powerful emotions associated with these stories and many cried, yet almost all of them were willing to participate in the study again.

The researchers found that it is indeed healing to translate our experiences into words, to put events and feelings into perspective using written language.
In Opening Up: The Healing Power of Expressing Emotions, Pennebaker discusses how writing about emotional events relieves stress and promotes a more complete understanding of events. He concludes that simple catharsis, the explosive release of emotions, is not enough. Feelings, thoughts, and a new comprehension need to be integrated in our minds with memories of the events that occurred in order to create a new perspective. Pennebaker compares the effects of writing to psychotherapy, where emotional disclosure and the release of inhibition are part of the healing process, along with the ability to integrate new insights into current behavior and beliefs.

As far back as Wilhelm Reich (1897–1957) psychologists have suggested that repression and suppression of emotion contribute to stress and emotional and physical imbalance. In a primitive fight-or-flight system, powerful chemicals surge through the body to protect an organism against a perceived threat. When the threat has passed, the body retains the pattern of tension and vigilance, especially if there was ongoing trauma. When stress is released, the immune system responds in a positive direction, toward balance and ultimate health.

In 1999, an article by Joshua Smyth et al. in the “Journal of the American Medical Association” about the effects of expressive writing on arthritis and asthma sufferers made a rousing splash in the writing and psychological communities.

In their 2002 book The Writing Cure, Smyth and Stephen Lepore present more recent studies showing that while writing about trauma and negative emotions causes emotional pain and distress for a short period, both mood and physical health improve. Furthermore, writing about positive emotions and a positive future also lead to improvements in physical as well as emotional health.

The research also showed that our personalities affect these benefits. If a person tends to withhold emotions, writing about negative experiences will likely have a positive effect on that person’s health. If a person generally focuses on negative feelings, writing about a positive experience or a happier life event may have a beneficial effect. Therefore, there is no single “right” way to use writing as a healing tool.

Freewrite: A freewrite means to write freely without stopping or correcting your work. To let your hand sweep across the page, or your fingers to rush across the keys. Do not delete or correct. Save and move to the next writing idea.
When writing the invitation, freewrite and enjoy!

Writing Invitations
1. List five reasons you want to write stories about your life.
2. What kinds of stories do you like to read, and why?
5. Describe the town, city, landscape you grew up in. Include buildings, weather–all your favorite things about this place. Try to feel this place again as you write. Use descriptions and sensual details.
6. Think about and write about how the place where you grew up shape you into the person you are today?
7. Eavesdropping as a child—did you do that? What interesting stories did you hear? Write some of these stories.

You can read more about this amazing research in my second book on the power of writing to heal: The Power of Memoir–How To Write Your Healing Story.

Happy Holidays!

Christmas Day, celebrated in many different ways by different cultures across the world, can be seen as the secular or religious holiday that it appears to be. Or, we may reflect on other layers of meaning it can have for us–connection with family, moments of intimacy and love, a philosophy of generosity and sharing, and a metaphorical message about birth, hope, peace, and a belief in a positive future.

We all have different holiday memories from the past, and as memoirists we may want to capture some of those memories from those times, or we may choose to capture in a poem or our journal the meaning and feeling of today.

Whatever your choice, I wish everyone love and joy for now and the New Year.

Stages of Writing your Memoir—Finding Your Turning Points

Memoir writers need to go through several stages of writing to create a complete story that’s ready to be published. First, you write the emotional draft(s) where you find your memories and spill out your story. Next, as you find out what the stories are that land on the page—they may not be the same ones that floated in your head all those years—you can begin to craft your memoir so a reader can follow it, so you have a story and not just a series of disconnected events.

These days, the convention is for memoir writers to write their story using fictional tools such as scenes, dialogue, sensual details, and to learn about the craft of story structure. In this post, we are going to look at how to find the main events—the turning points of your life—since a memoir is not an autobiography. You do not start at the beginning and write about everything. You memoir needs a theme, and it needs to touch upon significant events where you learned something important that others can learn about.

You are writing your memoir first for your own understanding, but if you want to create a publishable work, then you need to think of the reader in the later drafts. You need to invite the reader—who does not know and love you already—into your story.

Your turning points are the emotional hot spots of your life. Knowing these will help to sort through the millions of memories that you have your memoir, and the turning points will help to build the spine of your memoir structure. These are the moments of BIG CHANGE, the times when your life took a turn in another direction, propelled by powerful forces. These can be inner forces, such as a spiritual awakening, a moment of complete clarity, or you might think of outer forces such as an illness, a move, a sudden loss.

A turning point can be a powerful moment of utter happiness, a marriage, traveling to another country, or the birth of a child. These are special times that have deep meaning to you, and that made a difference in the course of your life. Your turning points are the times that taught you a lesson, times that woke you up, times that shaped you into the person that you are now.

Finding your turning points will help you to focus on these special moments and capture them in a list, which will then be plotted on a timeline.

Ask yourself: what moments ended the life I was living before, and changed the direction of my life? In a fictional story or a movie, we know that the plot is going to change when someone new wanders into town, when this new person shows up, we expect there to be important changes or we would not, as readers/viewers be shown this event. Some of your turning points may be meeting someone new—a teacher, an older person who influenced your life. Or it might be a lover, a partner, someone who taught you how to relate differently.

  • Make lists in your writing journal about these moments.
  • Use your photo albums to refresh your memory, or old letters.
  • Sometimes visiting a place where important things happened can help us remember these important moments.
  • Start with 10-15 of these turning point moments. Remember, you can’t use everything that happened to you. If you are not sure about the theme or focus of your memoir, this is a great way to start digging into your memories and begin to capture important things that are full of energy, full of the energy of life’s changes, whether you judge these changes to be for better or worse.
  • This turning point list is your resource for writing your stories.
  • Plot them on a timeline so you can see the relationship between event and timing.
  • Freewrite these stories. That means to put your pen on the page or your fingers on the keyboard and write for about 15-20 minutes without stopping.

I love Brenda Ueland’s If You Want to Write. She invites the juicy creative aspects of ourselves to come out and play.

Writing, the creative effort, the use of the imagination, should come first—at least for some part of the day every day of your life. It is a wonderful blessing if you use it.

When you write, if it is to be any good at all, you must feel free, free and not anxious.

All creativity experts, from Julia Cameron to Rollo May advise writers to let ‘er rip, the way to bypass the inner critic, and a great way to enjoy the first fruits of your writing.

Finding your turning points offers you a way to focus on topics, emotional themes, and begin what might be the spine of the plot of your memoir. If you have begun your memoir, make a list of the turning points that you have included. This can clarify your progress.

Enjoy the discovery process, and begin your list today.

More details about these exercises can be found in my book The Power of Memoir.